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- 建立时间: 2007-09-04
- 更新时间: 2007-11-19
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forgiveness
2007-11-19
The story goes that two friends were walking through the desert. During some point of the journey they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other one in the face.The one who got slapped felt hurt, but without saying anything, wrote in the sand: "Today my best friend slapped me in the face."
They kept on walking until they found an oasis, where they decided to take a bath. The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning, but the friend saved him.
After he recovered from the near drowning, he wrote on a stone: "Today my best friend saved my life."
The friend who had slapped and saved his best friend asked him, "After I hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now you write on a stone. Why?"
The other friend replied: "When someone hurts us we should write it down in sand where winds of forgiveness can erase it away. But when someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it."
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Have Faith, and Expect the Best
2007-11-11
Faith begins by believing in your heart that what is right has a chance. Faith is knowing in your heart that good can overcome evil, that the sun can shine in a rainstorm.
Faith is peaceful and comforting, because it comes from within where no one can invade your private dreams.
Faith is not something you can demand or command; it is a result of commitment to belief.
Faith is believing in something you can't see or hear, something deep inside that only you understand and only you control.
Faith is trusting in yourself enough to know that no matter how things turn out, you will make the best of them.
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...
2007-10-02
i just ...
miss you~~
i want to see you again..
where are you...
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DREAM
2007-9-23
If we have not achieved our early dreams, we must either find new ones or see what we can salvage from the old.
If we have accomplished what we set out to do in our youth,
then we need not weep like Alexander the Great that we have no more worlds to conquer.
There is clearly much left to be done, and whatever else we are going to do, we had better get on with it. -
About sex and love
2007-9-04
Stricktly speaking ,sex and love have no direct relationship.But the usual phenomenon is the two lovers seems to be involve in sex after they have remance relationship.But it seems to be true that love lead to sex.In some sense sex enhance or improve love.But in the real world, sex is just small part of a love relationship.We do understand that love is composite of mutually apprieciating and something in common.the lovers share their laughters and tears,everyone find their another part by judging that if the countpart is his taste or style.And the next step ,they try to have we so called "Make love".In America,it appears to us that sex is isolated from love, i didn't want to say that sex is bad or evil.As we have our desires ,especially for this adults.But we can't just find someone to love for sex purpose. To handle your desire ,I think there are many ways ,for instance , have a shower of cold water or chatting with your best friend or have a toast with your loved ones.
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some think of bar
2007-9-04
LAst night i went to a bar which is called "BAIDU".After an expensive and a littele luxurious dinner in our office building ,Mr He decided he want to invite all of us to the bar.this is the second time for me to go to a bar.Though the friends around have just changed , the things remains unchanged is that we should be happy or high in this place.Baidu is just a small bar but a lot of pretty girls and evev a so called star who ranked 7th in the Hao nan'er contest. I love the songs played in the bar just because the melody is very familiar and most of them are english songs.A little of unloyal to our dear countrymother .
In fact , I found two big difference between bars in Shanghai and Ningbo.
First,Bar in shanghai are a little too small and less people,just because on Hengshan Road There are too many bars in the street.Ningbo's is more noisier and much more people.
Second:In shanghai,the music is gentel and no pipe dancing at all which i think this is rather good.No dancing,so that we can play our own games and share the time we are close.
The next I want talk is that the bar girls.In fact every man in the world can deny that the girls are rather beautiful.Maybe just becuase of my humble birth,I do not know their story,but i still believe that they are here with all kind of reasons that they can't say out.Till now i still can think of the tears of a bar girl in Ningbo,Though we didn't even talk and know each other before, she do really
touch my bottom of heart.Yes,in this world ,there are too many helpless girls ,If we can't help them, i still reserve the rights to show our sympathy in our heart.
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Wife,inamorata,and the confidant
2007-9-04
1: Who is your wife? The one who you give your saving to.2:Who is your inamorata? Tho one who you thievishly dated with and afraid of meeting your wife.
3:Who is your confidant? The one who share your secrets that you can't share with your wife.
A wife is like a restiction.She restricted your intercourse with another woman unbeedingly.
A inamorata is like a compensation.She awarded you with the passion that you want to get from your wife but failed.
A confidant is like a guider.She give you a direction when you lost your way.
A wife comsumes your life;a inamorata comsumes your money;a confidant comsumes your chatting time.the wife can't take the place of inamorata,because she got no such taste.the inamorata can't replace the wife because she got no such affection.Both the wife and inamorata can replace a confidant because she is at the bottom of your heart desire.
A wife is someone who have no blood connection with you but worried about your absence of home late in night.
A inamorata is someone who have no family connection with you but give you a chance to taste the enjoyment of being a man.
A confidant is someone who have no connection with you at all but share your happiness and worries.
The wife makes home and bay where you can calm down your wildering heart.
The inamorata is excess baggage which you don't willing to drop unless you have to.
the confidant is decoration ,without her ,you won't be lonly but you will lead a dull life.
THe confidant is a coffee which refresh you when you work deep at night.